3 of us, all grown up, molded, leading our own lives, not much related, but the chemistry and click still exist.... same from sec through now....
We chatted about sec sch friends, mostly updating Shan (for being so far from singapore), marriage (wonder you or hui will get first hahah), work/income to buy house.... Frankly speaking I can't believe when you could give me an answer on when you wanted to marry, that was TOTALLY different from what I would have expected from the Shan in Secondary school.
You 2 girls keep asking how are your boyfriends hahaha.... it was quite amusing, but I'm glad that you guys asked, 3 possibilities :
1) show off
2) wanna hone him to perfection
3) concerned if he is the right guy .......
I would assume the 3rd, given that the guys have nothing to show off ..... It also shows that I'm a valued opinion (I hope) and important friend :D (which I like to think that way).....
I would really say just stick to your instincts and heart, there's really something about a woman's 6th sense which tells things beyond what you see (of course dun use it if it's too suspecting)..... Being long with another person, your heart will become tuned to the other person, eg. knowing what to buy for him to eat, knowing that he wanna go out with his friends today, knowing that he's gonna wear that outfit, knowing what's he up to in the middle of the night not asleep......
Of course he's heart can be "untuned" to yours.... however do not mistaken this for "uninterested", it might just be "in-sensitive" and ur guy would needs lotsa coaching. Little hints here and there to help remind would make the relationship sweeter....
Dun forget to invite me for wedding.. I'll gladly fly over to see a best pal start a new phase of life....
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